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Month: February 2022

Our Walls of Thorns

February 10, 2022February 10, 2022 / Shelby Paulele / 1 Comment

When I moved to Tennessee as a kid, my parents bought a property with a creek bed running through it. This creek bed was severely overgrown, it hadn’t been maintained for many years, if at all. In the creek, there were tons of vines growing on the trees, choking out all the plants, sucking the … Continue reading Our Walls of Thorns

Our Lines in the Sand are Walls of Stone

February 1, 2022February 1, 2022 / Shelby Paulele / Leave a comment

Have you ever had to cut someone out of your life? I have. Many, many times. And I've heard more than once that cutting someone completely out of your life is rude or cold-hearted. I've been told that it is a sign of being toxic and fickle. Which is absolute bullsh**, because cutting someone out … Continue reading Our Lines in the Sand are Walls of Stone

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    The Calm of Chaos

    Have you ever been white water rafting? For those who haven’t, let me help you visualize it: you purposely get into a relatively sturdy rubber raft in a relatively dangerous part of a river, and do your best to steer the raft, using paddles, away from rocks and treacherous drops, all while hanging on for…

    Shelby Paulele's avatar by Shelby Paulele October 16, 2025

    Going from Pilot to Law School Student

    SO. You’re probably wondering where I’ve been for the last… oh gosh, wayyy too long.  Well, its been quite an interesting couple of years, a lot of growth, a lot of learning. So I’ll start at the beginning, and explain how I went from simply (or not so simply) studying for my pilot’s license to…

    Shelby Paulele's avatar by Shelby Paulele September 8, 2025
    The Plans God Laughs At

    The Plans God Laughs At

    I had a plan. I really, really did have a plan when I was 17. At first, I wasn’t sure if I was going to college, but once I was sure, I started making my plan. I’m going to have a gap year to save up money for tuition, working my butt off at three…

    Shelby Paulele's avatar by Shelby Paulele July 8, 2022July 8, 2022

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